It can be really easy with all the things that are happening in the world today to get lost in fear. To believe, or buy into the beliefs of others. One of the best life coaching skills that I pass forward to all of my clients is to create a list of people who stand in your greatness versus those who wish to hold you where you are. Why is this valuable information? Often times out of habit when something we perceived to be unpleasant happens, we choose to share that information with as many people as possible. Once a pity party has begun it is extremely easy to find others who want to bring countless unwanted guest to the party. What I suggest to my clients, and is my own practice is to call a friend who will help me transform the situation rather than adding additional anger, grief, and anxiety to what is already a stressful situation. When I dial a friend who will stand in my greatness I am breaking one of the greatest habits in the world. The need for pity, or the need to be a victim. The unconditional love of a friend who is unattached to the outcome allows me the freedom to move forward in the direction of my heart rather than in reverse which is always the direction of fear.
Day 66: Water Falls, Where do you feel "stuck?"
There are those times in life when I feel that I need to make something happen. I feel it is my responsibility to make what I want manifest in my life a reality. I have transformed that understanding through my work with the abundance book by John Price that reminds me that. That is not my truth!
"In one of the readings it states that "the divine consciousness that I am is forever expressing its true nature of abundance. That is its responsibility not mine. My only responsibility is to be aware of this truth. Therefore, I am totally confident in letting go and letting the creative process appear as the abundant all sufficiency in my life."
I often say at Amor Spiritual Center that the universe is working to support my dreams. Put another way there's a creative intelligence that is working on my behalf to ensure that I have everything needed to accomplish with excellence everything that I do. Why then what I ever question taking the first step?
Last week at the community talk I shared with the community that fear often keeps us frozen in place. Fear is an ego based belief that we are going to be hurt, or we're about fail. It is my belief that once we become aware of how the ego works we can work with it rather than against it. For instance, the ego is really our internal guidance system to protect us. The perceived hurt is based on past experience, and past expectations.
I shared a post on Facebook that states when driving downt the road of life we want to keep our view in rear view mirror in perspective. That looking at the past is ok from time to time to measure where we've come from. Yet we are no longer heading in that direction. Keeping our eyes focused on the goal, the dream, the desire enables us to focus our energy in the direction of our heart. Fear has us closing our heart telling us that following our heart is irrational. We have listened to this message for so long we believe that is it normal. When in fact when listening to our heart we allow the still quiet knowingness to always leads us home.
I love you,
Rev Allen
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